Simple and Fun Ways to Expand Your Child’s Vocabulary Doing Every Day Activities

Many children with special needs have delays in their vocabulary development.  Neurotypical children tend to pick up language from hearing it spoken and many do not need explicit teaching in their younger years.  As they get older, language arts and English classes teach vocabulary more directly.  Many children with special needs need to be directly taught basic vocabulary.  There are many ways you can expand vocabulary for your child with everyday activities in your home and the community.  If your child receives speech and language services at school, you may want to talk with your child’s speech therapist about coordinating categories for vocabulary development.  You can use items and activities that your child is interested in to expand their vocabulary.  You can also use outings in the community as vocabulary enrichment activities.  Expanding your child’s vocabulary can help to boost their self esteem and their ability to communicate with others  as well as help them with overall academic performance.

If your child is receiving speech services through their Individualized Education Program (IEP) it is advisable and will ,hopefully, be beneficial to talk with the speech therapist about whether you can coordinate vocabulary development by focusing on a topic or category each month or each quarter, based on your child’s needs and abilities.  Broad categories such as kitchen items, art supplies, sports equipment or types of sports, body parts, school supplies, toys and games, outdoor items, clothing, food, community establishments and/or community helpers and even prepositions are good ones to use.   Whether your child is verbal or nonverbal, it will be helpful to talk with your child’s speech therapist about items, activities and topics your child is showing an interest in.

The speech therapist will likely be working on a variety of skills with your child in school, based on their communication goals and objectives.  Coordinating a vocabulary calendar can help you know where to focus.  This may also be a great way to set up regular communication with your child’s speech therapist so you can keep track of progress, too.  If you notice that your child has a new interest, sharing this with the speech therapist may also help him/her to have more success with your child in the school setting.  Many speech therapists will also send home speech homework or a home program, if you request this.  If this is something you would like, ask for it to be included in your child’s IEP at the IEP meeting.  Children with learning difficulties need as much repetition as possible to integrate new concepts into their long-term memory so if you and the school personnel are working on the same overall concepts it will be beneficial to your child.

You can easily use activities or items your child likes to expand their vocabulary.  This does require that you are interacting with your child during the activity rather than sending them off to play by him/herself.  Planning a certain time each day for vocabulary development may be helpful for some people, while others will want to embed it into many activities they do throughout the day.  You have to find the right balance and style for you and your child.  If you have a sitter watch your child before or after school, you can also ask them to spend a certain amount of time working on vocabulary development.  The key to this type of play-based intervention is to make it seem natural to the child. You want the learning and labeling to be seen as part of the play.

Following are a few examples of how to incorporate vocabulary development into daily play activities.  If your child likes to do art projects then when you get supplies out, encourage him/her to ask for what they want.  If they point at, grab for, say an incorrect name or ask what something is, say something like, “These are scissors. Scissors. What is it?”  Then have them repeat the name again before giving it to them.  During the activity, make it a point to ask for the scissors so they hear the word again and then when they need them again they should ask you for them again, by name.  If your child likes to play with Lego’s and you want to work on prepositions, you can naturally build new terms into your play.  For example, “What color is under the red one?” or “Put this one next to the tree” or “May I have the long one behind the box”.  Then for each preposition model or point out the placement and get your child to do the same and then label it.  If your child likes to play with dolls, you can work on body parts or clothing items while you are playing together using the same strategies discussed above.

Household routines can also be used to learn new vocabulary in a fun way. If your child likes to help with cooking or to be in the kitchen with you, you can teach them new vocabulary in the following categories; furniture, dishes and utensils, foods, bake/cookware, large and small appliances and cleaning supplies(if appropriate) .  This can be done during food preparation, while setting or clearing the table, while cleaning, and/or while putting away groceries.  If your child likes to take baths you can teach them new vocabulary for toys they like to play with as well as items you find in the bathroom, such as; toilet, towel, soap, shampoo, shower curtain, etc.

Another way to expand your child’s vocabulary is when you are out of the house, either doing fun activities or running errands.  You can turn any outing into a learning experience through orchestrating it into a game or a scavenger hunt.  For example, if you are in the grocery store you can say something like, “Let’s see how many yellow things we can find in the store today.” Then as your child points out yellow items, label them for your child and ask them to repeat the label.  This can be done in most locations by giving your child a descriptor that he/she already knows (such as a color, shape, size, texture, function) or you can use it to teach new descriptors.  This also helps build a community awareness for your child-they learn that the grocery store, the doctor’s office, the post office, the drug store, restaurants and other places you go to are more than buildings and places to be bored at.  Occupying them with an activity such as this can also decrease meltdowns, especially if you have some kind of built in reward for “playing the game well”.

I encourage you to unofficially assess your child’s vocabulary during the day to see where he/she needs expansion.  Ask him to pass you the spoon.  Ask her to put the scissors next to the box.  Ask him where the milk goes.  Ask her what you are looking at.  Ask him which orange is bigger.  Ask her where you need to go to get medicine.  This helps you to know which labels your child knows and which ones need to be developed further.  Many parents have told me they were surprised that their child did not know the difference between a fork and a spoon, or did not know that “next to” means beside, or that the cold rectangle thing in the kitchen that milk is stored in is called the refrigerator or that the paper thing you’re looking at in the doctor’s office with pictures and words is called a magazine or that two of the same items can be distinguished based on “bigger“ or “smaller” or that the place you get medicine is a pharmacy(or a brand name store such as CVS or Walgreens).

Share with us how you help to expand your child’s vocabulary.  What strategies have you found most helpful?

Why is Accurate Measurement of Behavior and Academic Progress Important?

Measuring behavior and academic progress with children with special needs is essential for their long-term success.  This is why goals and objectives on Individualized Education Programs (IEPs), Behavior Intervention Plans (BIPs) or 504 plans must be specific and measureable in easily understood terms.  I often think of Descartes quote, “If it exists in some amount it’s capable of being measured”, when writing any objective-academic or behavioral, because this really is a true and valid statement.

When you look at any educational document for your child regarding goals, objectives and progress you should readily be able to see whether change has occurred over time and to what extend change did or did not occur.  If you are looking at data that is not quantifiable, it is useless.  How can an educator say there has been a decrease in a certain behavior or an increase in knowledge of a certain subject if they have not determined a specific way to measure the decrease or increase.  This why terms such as “he will show improvement” or “there will be a decrease in her “x” behavior” are inappropriate.  How are we defining “an improvement” or “a decrease”?  Quantifying these terms with a time line makes them appropriate.  We can measure, “he will show an improvement from 50% to 80% by the end of the 1st semester” or she will decrease “x” behavior from 20 times per day to less than 5 times per day within six weeks”.

There always needs to be a baseline, or a starting number, in order to measure progress.  Determining exactly where is the child is starting out before an intervention is begun is critical for good data analysis.  Baselines are usually determined by pre-tests, by counter based observations, by formal assessments and/or by informal assessments.  After a baseline is determined, an intervention to change the behavior or increase the child’s knowledge should be implemented.  After implementation, there needs to be another assessment of the same or similar nature completed to determine how much movement has occurred from the baseline. If there has been very little improvement or no improvement, we can usually conclude the intervention is not appropriate and move on to another strategy.   Let’s look at both a behavioral and academic example.

In the first scenario, I have an eighth grade female student with a learning disability and the problem behavior is that the child gets out of her seat and does something distracting.  The distractions tend to be sharpening her pencil, taking the bathroom pass and leaving the room to get a drink or take a walk in the hall or continually riffling through her backpack during instruction.  In order to get an accurate assessment of the behavior, I would ask someone else to do a minimum of three observations (this is generally considered standard because behavior can vary so much) of the same length of time of the child during instruction.  I would ask them to use a counter or tick marks to indicate how many times the child got out of her seat and engaged in a behavior that we had defined as disruptive to her learning during instruction.  I would then add up the numbers and divide by three (because there were three observations) and then that gives me a baseline. If the data showed that during the first thirty minute observation the child got up 5 times, the second  observation showed 7 incidents and the third observation showed 6 incidents this is what the baseline would look like, 5+7+6=18/3=6.  This child has a baseline of getting out of her seat an average of six times during a thirty-minute instructional period.  It is then very easy for me to measure a decrease, an increase or a flat line after I begin an intervention with her.  If I start an intervention with her and then have more observation done after two or three weeks and I see that the average is still high (5 or above), I can assume the intervention is not working well.  I then need to switch the intervention I am using to get better results because she is still likely missing a lot of important instruction if she is getting up and engaging in distracting behaviors.  The reason I distinguish this characteristic of ‘distracting behavior’ is that some children need to get up and move in order to attend better but for example purposes this is not the case with this child.

In the second scenario, I have a fourth grade male student with an emotional disability who is struggling with learning his multiplication facts between 6 and 9.  In this scenario, I only need to give one pre-test to determine what he already knows as long as I give it to him when he is in a god emotional state.  If the test is measuring facts from 1-10 by the multipliers of 6,7,8 and 9 the test would have 40 problems so I can easily get an overall percentage and a percentage for each multiplier to see if there is one that he I struggling with more than another.  If he takes the pretest and gets 16 out of 40 correct he receives a score of 40%.  After I have intervened and taught him new ways to memorize his multiplication facts, I must reassess him to quantify his growth.  If upon reassessment he gets 30 out of 40 correct, he receives a score of 75%, which is a significant gain.  I would, of course, want to keep working with him using this same intervention or another one to get his score as close to 100% as possible as knowing one’s multiplication facts is an important life skill.

In addition to solid measurements, a good objective also has a time line.  For my female student who is getting out of her seat and being distracted on an average of 6 times in a 30 minute time period I have great concern that this behavior is avoidance either because the content is too hard or because she has something going on emotionally.  In either instance, she is missing core instruction that will likely affect her overall performance.  If I get my baseline data in early October and wait until early January to reassess, she may have missed a huge amount of content, which is unacceptable.  Generally, behavioral objectives need to be reassessed frequently so that interventions can be adjusted.  Now, it may take me three months to get her from an average of six incidents to an average of two incidents but if I’m not assessing in between I don’t know whether my interventions are working or not.  I also have to determine whether two incidents of distracted, out-of-seat behavior are acceptable for this child.

For my male student working on his multiplication facts it may be more appropriate to take formal assessments on progress every couple of months rather than every couple of weeks because I will know by working with him if he is improving or not.  It really depends on what I observe during our sessions and on his scores on weekly quizzes or homework assignments.

Measuring behavioral and academic progress is critical for growth.  A good teacher should always be able to give you a baseline and a current (with a reasonable prior request) assessment of progress on any goal or objective.  Become knowledgeable about how progress is measured so that you can make sure progress is occurring with your child at an acceptable rate.

If have had many parents use similar strategies of measuring behavior  at home with children who exhibit  a variety of behavioral issues, difficulty following procedures, lack of homework completion and more.  Many children respond well to seeing the positive changes in their data that proves they are improving.

Do you use any measurement strategies at home?  If so, please share them!

What is a Quality Education for Children With Special Needs?

I was recently asked by a parent to write about my definition of a quality education for teaching children with special needs.  The specifics of a quality education vary for children with different disabilities and even for varying levels of needs within a disability category.  I will do my best to answer this question in a general way based on my experience and my philosophy.  Please feel free to write comments or start a conversation in the comments section regarding certain disability categories.

An important factor to bring up regarding teaching children with special needs is FAPE (Free Appropriate Public Education).  Every child with special needs who qualifies for an Individualized Education Program (IEP) is entitled to FAPE.  The word ‘free’ in this acronym means that the parents should not accrue any charges for their child with special needs to be educated in the public school system.  This means that if a child needs a service that the school district is not currently utilizing the school district must find someone to provide that service.  All costs involved in that process are paid for through the school district’s budget.  The word that is most hotly contested in this acronym is ‘appropriate’.  There has been much discussion and many due process hearings over what this word means.  The Supreme Court ruled in the Rowley case in 1982 that appropriate means “that the child gained some educational benefit”.

With that said, my philosophy is not for my students to only “gain some educational benefit”.  My mission is always to maximize the learning experience for my students.  If a child has qualified for an IEP their disability has indicated that they need some type of individualized instruction.  Children, whether they are gifted or special needs or nuerotypical, learn best in different formats and through various avenues.  This is why you should rarely see the traditional lecture/”talk at you” format used for the majority of teaching scenarios anymore.  Therefore, in my opinion, the first step in a quality education is to get an accurate assessment of the child’s primary learning style. Some children learn best auditorily, others learn best visually, others learn best kinesthetically, others learn best through using highly structured methods, others learn best experientially, others learn best through small group discussions, others learn best through explicit instruction and so on. Understanding how a child learns best helps me to plan the instruction in a way that is most beneficial for the child.

Another important step in a quality education is that the educator builds rapport and trust with their students from the beginning of instruction.  In order for me have a positive influence, children must feel like my classroom is a safe and engaging environment.  Taking a small amount of time up front to build a working relationship, establish structure and boundaries  and show my students that I do care about their growth will allow them to have so much more success as a student.  Children need to know that I am in charge but that this is our classroom and we are here to support every persons learning and growth.

The next step in a quality education is getting current assessment data that gives me a true starting point for the child’s skills so I can measure whether my interventions are successful or not.  I am a believer that assessments should drive instruction.  Assessment does not have to mean a formal or traditional test.  Many of my assessment techniques are informal.  The most important part is for me to understand what the child knows before I teach them a new concept, after I teach them a new concept and then again assess their knowledge after a reasonable amount of time has passed to see if they have retained the new skill.  Repetition is critical for all of us to learn, so quality teachers are constantly spiraling their instruction to hit the key points repeatedly in as many areas as possible.

Another very important factor for a quality education is that educators need to look at the needs of the child as a whole.  If I only focus on academic or cognitive development, I am missing the point.  In order to provide a quality education for young people I must always look at social development, emotional development, physical development, communication development and life skill development, in addition to cognitive development.  Quality instruction assists children to become integrated into society in a healthy and positive way.  One-dimensional teaching does not do this.

As a special educator, I also believe that regular parent-teacher communication is part of a quality education.  In the vast majority of situations, the more parents and teachers work together, the more successful the child will be.  I know this is sometimes a controversial topic, as some parents believe that teachers need to educate and parents need to parents and vice versa.  In my opinion, in today’s complicated, highly technical (and highly distracting), face-paced world working as a team with parents increases the success rates for children with special needs to become healthy, happy, productive, integrated members of society.

Share your thoughts below about what you believe are the most important factors in a quality education?

As I mentioned early in the post, if you want to discuss best practices for children with certain diagnoses start a conversation below.

Building Rapport With Your Child’s Teacher Can Increase Their Overall Success

Parent teacher relationships are very important for success with your child with special needs .I have been an educator for twenty years.  While I take a break from working in the schools this year, I am able to reflect back on my career and look more closely at the ups and down and the successes and failures.  For me, being an educator has been a blessing.  I have learned so much and grown so much as an individual and as a professional.  For as long as I can remember, I have wanted to help people and help make the world a better place.  Both of my parents are in “helping professions” so I am sure that is where the roots were planted at a young age.

Since becoming an educator, I have lived and worked in three states across the country-Washington, Colorado and New Jersey. I have held many different positions-special education teacher, school counselor, behavior specialist, school social worker, intervention specialist and substitute teacher.  I have worked with students and teachers who were in general education, special education, gifted and talented programs and English Language Learner (ELL) programs.   I have worked in school districts in suburban neighborhoods, in poor neighborhoods and in wealthy neighborhoods.  I have worked with excellent, supportive and child-focused administrators and not so excellent administrators.  I have worked in schools where the staff was tight knit and functioned as a team and I have worked in schools where there was more of “an everyman for himself” mentality.

In all of these different environments, it was always my students who were my focus.  I never saw being an educator as just a job I went to from 8-4; it was who I was 24/7.  I am a strong believer in the need to learn to adapt to the circumstances.  There were, of course, certain circumstances that were much easier to do this in than others, but I always strove to find the most effective ways to be present with my children, to educate my children and assist my children in moving forward on their own path to becoming citizens of the world we live in.  Whether I worked with a child once or for five years I saw it as my job to give them everything I could-to better equip them the learn and thrive in the world.

One of the ways I was able to be especially effective in this task was through collaborating with parents.  Many educators and parents across the country have different feelings about whose job it is to “educate” children.  I cannot say that any one way is the right way and I can tell you that the students who I have had, that have had the most success are the ones whose parents partnered with me to educate their child.  This has meant different things for different children.  Some required more time and energy than others did.  I have always established a communication system for the parents of my students and me to communicate regularly.  I have always welcomed and encouraged parents into my classroom to observe and give me feedback.  I have always asked parents to share as much as they are comfortable about their child’s struggles and success so that we can work together for more successes.

It is disheartening to me that now more than ever many parents and educators have an “us versus them” attitude.  I believe part of this is based on how litigious (or lawsuit focused) our world has become.  I also believe that both educators and parents have more and more piled onto their plates to accomplish with no more time and no more money and it is easier to be overwhelmed today.  Although I believe it is the educator’s job to reach out to the parent, if that is not happening then I encourage you to reach out to them.  In today’s fast-paced world, it can be a challenge and it does not have to be time consuming.  With the introduction of so much new technology, it is easier than ever to communicate quickly through e-mail and/or text messages.  In my experience, when a child knows that their parents and teachers are on the same page it makes a world of difference both academically and behaviorally.

If you would like to download my Top 20 Tips for Building Rapport with Your Child’s School, click here.

I would also love to hear about your experiences, both positive and negative, about parent teacher relationships..